Stevens

One Of My Heroes

2012-02-01T06:00:00.000-08:00

Have I talked about Jenny Oaks Baker before on my blog? She is one of the Nation's most accomplished violinists. She is a graduate from Julliard, and has played all across the United States. She plays the most beautiful music, and she is training her children to do the same. She is one of my heroes. Why? She is an accomplished violinist, a mom, and someone who shares the same faith that I do. And she functions! I am amazed at her talent, and so blessed that she has chosen the career path that she has. Words just can't express the feelings and emotions that come from her music. Even better, she has been nominated for a Grammy! AH!

My father met Her father, Elder Dallin H. Oaks at a Christmas dinner for his work. My dad told Him of my infatuation with Jenny, which led to great stories, and me e-mailing Jenny and her e-mailing me back! I couldn't believe it. I think I should probably print that one out. Anyway, she plays beautifully. One day I will hear her play live! I have a signed CD from her too. Isn't that just great? Well before I get any more goo goo gah gah'd over her, check this out.

A Fun Tag!

2012-01-31T12:17:00.000-08:00

Surprise! It's a tag. I love these. I think that they prove to be relaxing, and slow things down a little bit. Not that I am good at doing them, but I love reading what others write down! Thanks Lara for tagging me! Enjoy!

Here are the rules of the challenge:

1 - you must post the rules.

2 - post eleven fun facts about yourself on the blog post.

3 - answer the questions the tagger set for you in their post, and then create eleven new questions to ask the people you've tagged.

4 - tag eleven people and link them on your post

5 - let them know you've tagged them!

Eleven Fun Facts About Me:

1. I can't sleep unless my hair is in a pony tail...on the top of my head

2. I drove a red VW Beetle in high school and college. I called it "Happy Car."

3. Had I not met my husband, I would probably be a water ski bum in Florida...or somewhere (I'll have to explain that later.)

4. I am very particular in how the dishwasher is loaded, and bathrooms are cleaned. very particular.

5. I have too many passions for the time in a day, or year. water skiing, rafting,snowboarding, fiddling, taking photos, scrapbooking, being mom, sewing, crafting, baking, organizing, blogging, reading, exercising,playing the piano, etc. Yikes!

6. I must not be very fun because I am having a hard time coming up with fun facts about me!

7. I don't go anywhere without mascara. Clinique's very black high impact to be exact.

8. I learned to row a raft and drive a boat before I ever drove a car.

9. I never feel like I have enough clothes. So if you ever need a shopping partner, I'm your main woman!

10. I love to travel. Love love love it!

11. I am the oldest of six girls, and the shortest.

11 questions for me:

1. What is your favorite color and why? Currently, Tiffany Blue. I can't explain it. It just makes me smile. A while ago royal red. And before that, pink, yellow, gray. It changes a lot.
2. There is a fire and you have like 2 minutes to grab stuff. What do you grab? So this is actually one of my greatest fears. Hands. Down. First, my babies. Then personal documents (which includes my external hard drive with years worth of photos.) And at the same time I would grab my violin, banjo, and somehow wheel my piano out of the house. My house just better not catch on fire.
3. What do you listen to when you clean? My kids playing with toys! If it's nap time, it's usually quiet.
4. What is your favorite snack? chocolate. But if that classifies as a treat, my favorite snack would be ice cream.
5. If you could have a super power what would it be? This one is hard. I think that I would be able to go back in time, or fly. Or how about travel in the blink of an eye. Those are good ones.
6. What is your favorite book? I have way too many! I loved The Help and The Hunger Games trilogy. Oh! And can't forget Twilight. And my daily reading that never gets old, The Book of Mormon.
7. What is your dream vacation? I kinda like to think that I've been to my dream destination already. Switzerland. I would go back in a heart beat. But somewhere new...Anywhere where they have those little huts that go out over the water. Tahiti? Bora Bora? That would be nice.
8. If you could name yourself, what would be your name? I always loved the names Diana and Julie. But I'm ok with Stephanie! Well, Steph.
9. What do you think is your strongest attribute/characteristic? This is a hard one. I'm really faithful. Not just in spiritual matters. But I'll be a faithful friend, faithful worker, etc.
10. Who is your favorite celebrity and why? I love Keri Russell. She just seems so soft spoken and tender hearted. I also love Taylor Swift. Love her music, style, personality...
11. What is your favorite movie? I love August Rush, and chic flicks. Sorry I can't pin it down more!

I tag:

11 questions for you:

1. If you had a free day to do anything you wanted, what would it be?

2. What is on your night stand right now?

3. If you could go back and re-live one day of your life, what day would it be and why?

4. What would your dream job be?

5. What is the Greek meaning of your name?

6. What is your secret favorite chore?

7. What is your favorite childhood memory?

8. What is your heaven on earth?

9. If a season described you, what season would you be and why?

10. What is your go to drink?

11. If you had $500 dollars given to you, what would you do with it?

How To:

2012-01-30T06:00:00.000-08:00

Dry your scriptures (or any book for that matter) after they go swimming with the kids in the bath tub.

Ya. My nice set of scriptures just went swimming. Oh dear. I actually got really lucky. It's almost like they floated for about a second before I could pull them out. You see, Big T was about to go under. Pulled him out, pulled the scriptures out. The edges got wet in a few places, and then the pages I was opened to got soaked.

Have you ever seen "The Incredibles"?

Well, there is a part in the movie where the house sprinklers come on and soak everything. Then it shows Mr. Incredible drying out the books with a hair dryer. It looks so flawlessly easy. He just points and shoots and the pages turn themselves without bending or getting crinkled.

It's. Not. That. Simple.
The hair dryer did make the drying process very fast. But the pages will crinkle. Just so ya know.
I think that that will be the last time I read while the kids are in the tub!!!
Lesson learned.

Spiritual Uplift

2012-01-29T06:00:00.000-08:00

Ok, so this might not have anything to do with religion, per say. But I thought that it was a beautiful article anyway! All on motherhood, and maybe a good view for those who aren't mothers as well...

"To The Mother With Only One Child"

My reactions was first "Wow. This applies to me as well, and I have two." It wasn't that long ago when I did only have one, and it was hard. It's hard with two too! I love it when she talks about how having one child was so heavy, and now having more is light. It's complete perspective that changes as life changes. But my most favorite part is when she says,

"You’re suffering now because you’re turning into a new woman, a woman who is never allowed to be alone. For what? Only so that you can become strong enough to be a woman who will be left."

Love it. Hope you did too.

On the Computer: What do you do?

2012-01-28T06:00:00.000-08:00

It is so interesting how times have changed. I don't feel like I am that old, but the on line world has changed so much since I really became "www. savvy."
It all started when I graduated high school. My parents gave me a lap top for graduation. My dad claimed that he "didn't want me walking to and from the library all hours of the night by myself." Sweet right? I thought so, well, I just wanted that computer. I still have that Toshiba. It weighs probably 9 pounds and is quite large. I loved it! "Back then" I would get on the computer and "IM" for a while before doing anything else. Then spend most of my time on Microsoft Word typing up papers for my classes. Then I would organize all of my pictures and draw funny pictures in paint.
NOW my computer habits are much different. I try to minimize my time on the computer because I could probably spend all day on it! First, Facebook. Just check my messages, perhaps update my status. Second, blog. I write a lot of my posts in advance and schedule them out so that I don't have to write one every day. Doesn't take me too long either! Third, check friend's blogs. Fourth, pintrest.
I have noticed that my lingo has changed also. I was talking to my Mom, and also to my grandparents. I kept saying things like "then I clicked on this link," or "on pintrest I found," etc. I kept getting blank stares. Ha! Too funny. It made me think about how often the dictionary is going to have to change definitions of words.
What will I be buying my kids when they graduate from high school? What will things be like in eight years? That's how long ago I got my first computer! Things are sure moving quickly!
What do you think about the internet? How much time do you spend on the computer outside of work? Am I missing some great sites?

SNOW DAY!

2012-01-26T06:00:00.000-08:00

We finally got some snow here in Idaho that stuck around...for a day. But at least it stuck right? And wouldn't ya know it, we couldn't just sit inside and watch it fall from the window. So, we got out there and had some fun!

Big T gettin geared up!

Big T and Bristol

Bristol's snow man. Didn't live for too long.
Ruby the dog ate it.

Tytan loves.the.snow.

Surprised?

2012-01-25T06:00:00.000-08:00

Today for lunch my Mr. and I decided to change up the routine a little bit. He was sick of taking lunches to work, and I was sick of being at home. So where did we meet up?

McDonald's!

We ate and played. Surprisingly Bristol didn't want to play in the play yard, but sit at the table with her new Happy Meal toy. She was completely content!

So, we are sitting there eating. This older gentlemen comes into the door and is greeted by the over zealous cashier worker. He presented her with a one dollar bill. They exchanged a few words, she gave him a hug (remember, over zealous) and then he walked away. Then it was announced to the workers in the back that when giving out change, two-1$ bills were stuck together. The gentleman was only supposed to receive one. WOW! Is it terrible that I was completely surprised? I know that there are good people in the world. I do. I guess more than surprised, I was proud that he did it! It was one dollar.

Would I have done it? YES!

Would everyone? Probably not.

So, i was proud!

I like to notice the good in the world.

What have you noticed?

It's here!

2012-01-24T06:00:00.000-08:00

My Canon Rebel T3 is here!

I almost wet my pants when the doorbell rang.

Happy early birthday to me!

Ty didn't even try to make me wait until my actual birthday to open it.

He was at work anyway when it came.

Now for learning how to properly take care of it, and use it.

I've gotten a few recommendations from friends.

An on line photography course, and a few other suggestions.

All I know for now is that I am in love with it!

And also:

take the battery out when not using it

don't lose the lens caps (Oh wait, I already did that!)

master one thing at a time (I am already feeling a bit over whelmed)

So, if you have any suggestions, please please please leave your comments!

And if you really wanted to know...

I love supporting local businesses. Especially when it comes to big purchases like this. My family has a favorite camera store here in the Boise valley. I went there twice and researched different cameras. I found my favorite, but they didn't have it in stock. They were having a limited time "special" on the T3 where you got a telephoto lens with the camera kit for $100 off. So they were going fast. So I got on the computer and did some more research. As it turns out, this "special" wasn't just at this store, but for any store that sold the T3. I found it on Amazon, eBay, and other local stores as well. However, Amazon had the best deal. I got a cleaning kit, tripod, the telephoto lens, camera bag, an extra battery and charger, my 2 UV lens covers, an extra memory card, a memory card wallet, and of course the camera itself. Quite the deal. And the price was still cheaper than the local store. So, I'm sorry! To get to the reason why I'm telling you all this, SHOP SHOP SHOP!!! Make sure it's what you really want, and look around!

Birthday

2012-01-23T12:06:00.000-08:00

Ty's Birthday was a bash!

Preparations included:

First making two cheesecakes!

And second coloring his card.

Dinner at Red Robin, followed by yummy cheese cake and present opening at home.

Bristol thought it was her birthday too. Poor girl is going to get a bit confused.

You see, we start the year off with Ty's birthday. Then mine a couple weeks later. Followed by Tytan's in February, and last but not least, Bristol's in March. I think it will have to be a big one this year!

Playing My "Biolin."

2012-01-21T06:00:00.000-08:00

Bristol loves the violin. And lately whenever I play, she plays her own!

Too cute.

Grandpa is currently getting Bristol's violin fixed. It is a tiny tiny violin that belonged to my sister Hailey. We are so lucky to borrow it! Bristol is so excited!

I've always believed in the statement that says,

"The richest child is poor without music."

Well, I like to say, "The richest child is poor without 'good' music."

Music is so important in all of our lives. I have been fortunate to be able to play musical instruments all of my life. And not only that, but to have been raised knowing the value of good music. I don't like music that is demeaning, or makes you feel angry or agitated. (And no, I don't just listen to classical ;)) Music has the power to do so many things. It enriches our lives.

I used to practice my violin or the piano when the kids were napping. Not any more! They love to hear me play. They could be in a different part of the house playing with their favorite toy, but as soon as my bow hits the string, they come running/crawling in!

On hard days when things just aren't going right, I put on Primary Children's songs. Bristol instantly starts dancing. It's amazing the good qualities that are taught in those songs.

I hope that you are filling your kid's minds and ears with good music. And if they show an interest in playing an instrument, put 'em in lessons. It is well worth the money. Consider it an investment really!

I could go on and on about this one...maybe later!

Look At Me!

2012-01-20T08:11:00.000-08:00

Look what I can do!

Tytan has been reaching new heights lately. Along with a few bumps on the head.

I think that he'll just have to get used to that...

His favorite new thing is to climb onto this luv sac.

What I can't seem to get on camera however is him using his teeth to help him out.

It's hilarious!

Bristol usually runs circles around him, but she cheers him on in his exhausting efforts!

Bristolisms

2012-01-16T06:00:00.000-08:00

Kids say the funniest things. And sometimes amazing things too, things that make you think. Well my little Bris is no exception! She talks a mile a minute. Just goes and goes and goes. I like to call her my little "informant." She tells me everything that is going on. Everything! For instance...

While playing with the stapler (unloaded): "I said, stop biting the paper! It's not nice. Stop biting!" And the stapler continued to bite the paper, in a very playful way.

"I want a treat. I want a treat. And a happy new year!"

"Tinker Bells, Tinker Bells, Tinker all the way. Oh what fun it is to ride in a one horse open sleigh hay!" Repeat.

As we were starting to drive: "Mom, I want the car to sing Tinker Bells!"

(Ya, we are still stuck on Christmas.)

Getting Tytan out of his crib: "Mom, did Tytan go tinkle in his pants? Or do boys go pee pee? Did he poop in his pants? Did you go poop? Boys go pee pee and girls go tinkle."

Well this might need a little explanation. You see, I have 5 sisters. We were sheltered quite well growing up. We never said the word "pee." We said tinkle. (I'll admit. It is a funny sounding word.) Then I married Ty, oldest of 3 boys. It would surprise me if he had ever heard let alone used the word "tinkle" before he married me. SO, we had a little girl. She goes "tinkle." Then we had a little boy. He goes "pee pee." And that's as far as we have gotten. ;)

While saying prayers before bed: "And please bless Mary, and Joseph, and baby Jesus, and Mary and Joseph and baby Jesus, and Jesus."

Isn't that the sweetest thing? She is very concerned about them.

While helping me make dinner: "Mom, I am such a good cook!"

twenty-eight

2012-01-14T06:00:00.000-08:00

My Mr. turns 28 today!

May 2006

Here's to one more year!

And remember, you will always be older than me!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

Soap Scum Be Gone

2012-01-13T06:00:00.000-08:00

It's a miracle! I can see through the glass of my shower. ( I don't know why that is so important) but it is nice to have clean glass. I had been scrubbing at our shower doors since we moved in, and to no avail the scum wouldn't come off. So, I tried this.
1 cup white vinegar heated in microwave
3/4 cup dawn dish soap
Mix and put into a spray bottle
Spray onto the shower and let it set for a while. Then clean off.

Yes it's a little messy, and very stinky. But it totally worked!

Now I might have to keep my kids out of the bathroom while showering...don't want them seeing through the glass...oh dear...

Play Time

2012-01-12T06:00:00.000-08:00

Each winter I have the same problem. What do I do with the kids inside...each and every day? It is so hard to think of new ideas.

We have been having indoor picnics, playing new games, reading lots and lots of books.

Building forts to watch movies and have popcorn.

Baking treats together.

And then something I never thought.

Bring the dog in, stick her in her kennel, and let the kids play with her. It's been pretty entertaining.

A Little Vitamin D

2012-01-11T06:00:00.000-08:00

Hello Sun!

Hello warm temperatures!

We have missed you.

Patiently Waiting...

2012-01-10T06:00:00.000-08:00

I am not a patient person.

Many people say that to be in Special Education, you must have a lot of patience.

NOPE.

If you know me...well...you might know that I'm not blessed with a lot of it.

I'm working on it. Trust me. Actually, I have gotten a bit better.

But patience is going to do me no good here.

I want it NOW.

This I have no control over, which makes it worse.

It will be delivered between Jan. 12-18.

Please hurry!

Ruby Lou

2012-01-09T06:00:00.000-08:00

Whelp, Ruby is still around! She is growing very quickly and learning. Still a puppy, but learning really well. Here is an update for all of you animal lovers.

Ruby loves my Mr. LOVES him. She listens better to him than anyone else. She plays fetch, sits, stays, and goes "potty" on command. Better yet, when let outside, she stays right around the house. (so far)

Thoughts of Spiritual Uplift

2012-01-08T13:21:00.000-08:00

I have been reading this week. Reading a lot. (Go here to see why.) It has been amazing. I am learning so much. And to report, I haven't missed a single day! My year is off to a pretty ok start! But more importantly, here is what has been on my mind.

God created all things. Even me. Not only did He create all things, but he then looked at them and knew that they were good. They were good. He looks upon me and you, knowing that we are good.

We (me, you) were created in His image. We are like Him.

After creating all things for six days, the seventh day was a day of rest. Not a day of laziness, of idleness, or vegging, but a day of rest.

I'm on to the Old Testament. I'm excited about it. Learning more of the Savior and His ministries!

Bye Bye

2012-01-03T06:00:00.000-08:00

The other night we took down our Christmas tree. I was sad enough, but didn't think that Bristol would really take notice. But the poor tree had quit drinking water 2 weeks ago, and was getting really crusty. So down she came. With all of the water in the base, my Mr. had to cut her up.

Bristol cried.

"I want my tree back! I want my tree back! Where is Santa going to put my presents?"

It broke my heart. What's worse is the next morning she woke up and stood where the tree used to be and while looking up said, "Where is my castle?" (An ornament her Grandpa bought her.)

Poor thing.

Until next year!

Little Monkeys

2012-01-02T06:00:00.000-08:00

These two just make me smile.

Their daddy just comes up with the funnest games!

Pure entertainment right there. Who would have ever guessed!

Resolution Time and Spiritual Uplift

2012-01-01T13:36:00.000-08:00

HAPPY NEW YEARS!

I love starting a new year. Everything seems fresh, like having a clean slate. I don't like to think of myself as only making resolutions at the start of the year, but better yet trying to improve myself every chance I get. However last night as I was fighting sleep, I couldn't help but look back at the year and think about what I would like to improve. My Mr. and I shared our New Years Resolutions with each other. (And it couldn't be the same old "get in shape"...etc.)

For me:

be a better mother

be a better wife

improve my talents

grow closer to my Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ

Then I laughed. That couldn't be any more broad. Ha! I guess I have a lot to work on! Fortunately I have great kids, a great husband, resources to help improve my talents, and a Heavenly Father who loves me nonetheless.

And then...dun dun dun...I found this. I think I'd like to try it out. I know that it would be a HUGE commitment every day, but what is 7 pages? Well, maybe it will be tougher than you think, but I'm going to give it my all. Starting today. Today. Join in with me, let me know how it goes! I'll give you some updates along the way! The joy, the struggles, the tears, and the tender mercies from a loving and all knowing Heavenly Father. Wondering what the Standard Works are? Go here to find out!

My BIG Surprise and Christmas Day

2011-12-31T06:00:00.000-08:00

On Christmas Eve while in the car, I managed to explain quite well to my Mr. that in years past, I always knew what he was getting me for Christmas. Seriously.I always know.

To his credit, I HATE not being able to guess what I'm getting.I get that from my dad.

This year...completely different story. My socks were completely knocked off.

Here's what happened.

I thought I was getting a kindle. It was #1 on my list, and I had only mentioned, left little notes, and made him write it down a hundred times. That's what I was getting. I even "over heard" my brother in law talking about what I was getting. Well, we came home from all of our Christmas Eve festivities noticing that our Christmas lights had been turned off. I was sure they were on. "Oh well, I'll just turn them back on." No biggie. I got inside. "Hm. Our Christmas tree lights aren't on in the front window." So I go into our front room to turn them on.

"OH MY GOSH! ARE YOU SERIOUS?"

Isn't she beautiful? You should hear her play. Literally sounds like a baby grand.

Of course when I walked in the red bow was in the front, and there wasn't any music on it, but you get the picture. I am still in shock over it all. I have always wanted my own, but didn't figure that I would have one for quite some time. My Mom's first piano was going to do...

I am one lucky girl!!! I didn't guess this one at all. However, I did find it on Christmas Eve instead of waiting until Christmas morning. But, I couldn't ruin tradition and not know what I was getting before hand!

As for Christmas day. It was glorious. So nice to be home and start our own little traditions.

Opening P.J.'s at night

Opening our stockings first

Tearing through presents

Having a nice breakfast

And to top it off, go to church. I loved going to church on Christmas!

Christmas Eve

2011-12-30T12:00:00.000-08:00

Christmas Eve was a little hectic. With unpacking from our trip to Utah, a sick puppy, laundry, neighbor gifts, etc., we were just a little short on time. We got everything done though, and had a great day!

Our house with lights. (Pic for Ashley)

Playing some Christmas tunes with Chrissy.

Bristol, the perfect little Angel.

A family DVD and Santa time.

Big T getting ready to dig in.

Bristol's very anticipate "Tangled."

Playing with Tangled.

Pre-Christmas Celebration

2011-12-30T06:00:00.000-08:00

We were so excited to be in our first home this year, that we couldn't resist spending Christmas at HOME. OUR HOME. For all five years of our marriage, Ty and I have never spent Christmas at our home. We have always been fortunate to spend it at one of our parent's homes, but never in our own bed, in our own family room with our own tree, and eating Christmas breakfast in our own kitchen.

I know...ya get the point.

With all that said, we spent Christmas this year in our home in Middleton. We had an uncontrollable blast. As it was supposed to be our year in Utah with Ty's parents, we decided to head down there the week before Christmas and do a little Pre-Christmas celebrating. Complete with a Christmas Eve feast, opening presents, and looking at Christmas lights at Temple Square. (One of my favorite things.) I even ~~learned~~ tried to learn to crochet.

Celebration

2011-12-29T12:00:00.000-08:00

Ty's grandma Peggy and Her twin brother Pink turned 80!

A surprise birthday party was thrown for them the day before their actual birthday (Dec. 18th).

We made the trek to Oakley, Ut for the big event.

It's a Date

2011-12-29T06:00:00.000-08:00

Grandpa, Bristol, and Nana

Grandpa and Nana took Bristol on a date to the Build A Bear Workshop.

She. Ate. It. Up.

She picked out her own kitty, her dress, underwear, shoes, purse, and stroller.

She helped stuff it, kissed it's heart, and named her Rapunzel.

And then pushed her through the entire mall, past Santa.

She waved hello, but wouldn't get too close!

On their way back to our house, Bristol said to Grandpa, "Grandpa. Remember to take my DVD out."

Ha! Can't forget her "Alice" movie in Grandpa's car!

What a smarty.

sorry for the red eye ;)

Play Time

2011-12-28T12:00:00.000-08:00

Bris and Big T

These two are such a joy.

While I vacuumed, they played in the crib.

And then they played in the crib a little longer...

It is AMAZING what a little change up can do in the play time routine!

FIVE YEARS!

2011-12-28T06:00:00.000-08:00

December 28, 2006

We have made it 5 years strong today.

It wasn't hard.

We love each other more today than we did 5 years ago,

which didn't seem possible then.

Happy Anniversary "Babe"!

Why I Have Fallen Behind...Ugh

2011-12-27T22:00:00.000-08:00

AM
6:00 "Ty, the dog is barking"
6:10 back asleep
7:00 shower
7:15 get Big T out of bed
7:16 change diaper
7:17 feed Big T breakfast
7:25 get Big T more breakfast
7:30 Dog needs breakfast
7:31 watch dog eat
7:36 take dog out
7:45 Bristol wakes up
7:46 Bristol goes potty
7:48 get Bristol breakfast
7:53 I eat breakfast
7:57 dog is barking again
8:00 change diaper
8:03 get ready
8:25 change poopy diaper
8:27 dog barking, actually has to go out
8:30 Bristol needs more milk
8:33 receive phone call
8:37 make Tytan bottle
8:43 put Big T down for nap

Well...you get my point eh? It's been a bit busy around here. Nothing new, it's always busy. But the added stress of the holidays, going out of town for six days, and having a sick puppy have just added to it. However, you are about to get a complete update on the last couple of weeks. I won't be falling any more behind!

I hope that you all had a wonderful Christmas!! And check back tomorrow!

The House of The Lord

2011-12-20T15:37:00.000-08:00

This place is coming soon!

I can't believe how close it will be to our new home.

The excitement is beyond description.

The location is about 12 minutes from our house.

I can't wait!!!

Technology and Independence

2011-12-16T06:00:00.000-08:00

Put the two together and this is what you get:

Oh, and add Mom's clothes to the mix.

Merry Christmas!

2011-12-15T06:00:00.000-08:00

One day I might be able to send a Christmas card to everyone.

But until then, here is what you may have missed.

HAPPY HOLIDAYS!

Bristol and Tytan
Christmas 2011

2011 was a busy and exciting year for the Stevens family. Big T. joined the family on February 24, weighing in at 9lbs 15 oz. Then our little Bristol turned two! TyRell graduated with his master's degree, followed by accepting a job and moving to Middleton, Id. We hope that your holidays are filled with much joy and love!

Love, TyRell, Stephanie, Bristol and Tytan

Bristol 2011

Tytan 2011

2011-12-14T12:16:00.000-08:00

DINGLEHOPPER

aka

FORK

Sweet little Bristol got this wonderful idea from "The Little Mermaid."

SO, if you expect to eat with a fork at our house you might have to wait.

This whole episode of brushing her with a fork has really gotten me thinking about the influence that what our kids watch on TV really has an impact on what they do and how they act. This kid loved her princess movies. Not too bad, especially in limited doses. What do your kids watch on TV? Hope its good!

Caught Reading

2011-12-09T13:33:00.001-08:00

I couldn't help but snap this photo of my Mr. reading to Bristol.

She had to read in her princess tent.

I'm glad they fit in there together...almost.

I don't care how or where ya do it, but reading to your kids is so important.

Bristol could be watching her most favorite movie, and she will always stop if I pull out a book.

I hope that my kids' love for books continues.

On our reading list this month are Christmas books!

What are your kids favorites?

2011-12-08T06:00:00.000-08:00

I found this a bit interesting. What I would have given to be on that subway.

Perhaps he would get an amazingly huge turn out if he did a free concert

that was publicized first?

WOW.

By Wedding Live Band- The Raw Note (Albums)

"In Washington DC , at a Metro Station, on a cold January morning in 2007, a man with a violin played six Bach pieces for about 45 minutes. During that time, approximately 2000 people went through the station, most of them on their way to work.

After about four minutes, a middle-aged man noticed that there was a musician playing. He slowed his pace and stopped for a few seconds, and then he hurried on to meet his schedule.

About four minutes later, the violinist received his first dollar. A woman threw money in the hat and, without stopping, continued to walk.

At six minutes, a young man leaned against the wall to listen to him, then looked at his watch and started to walk again.

At ten minutes, a three-year old boy stopped, but his mother tugged him along hurriedly. The kid stopped to look at the violinist again, but the mother pushed hard and the child continued to walk, turning his head the whole time. This action was repeated by several other children, but every parent - without exception - forced their children to move on quickly.

At forty-five minutes: The musician played continuously. Only six people stopped and listened for a short while. About twenty gave money but continued to walk at their normal pace. The man collected a total of $32.

After one hour:
He finished playing and silence took over. No one noticed and no one applauded. There was no recognition at all.

No one knew this, but the violinist was Joshua Bell, one of the greatest musicians in the world. He played one of the most intricate pieces ever written, with a violin worth $3.5 million dollars. Two days before, Joshua Bell sold-out a theater in Boston where the seats averaged $100 each to sit and listen to him play the same music.

This is a true story. Joshua Bell, playing incognito in the D.C. Metro Station, was organized by the Washington Post as part of a social experiment about perception, taste and people’s priorities.

This experiment raised several questions:

In a common-place environment, at an inappropriate hour, do we perceive beauty?

If so, do we stop to appreciate it?

Do we recognize talent in an unexpected context?

One possible conclusion reached from this experiment could be this:
If we do not have a moment to stop and listen to one of the best musicians in the world, playing some of the finest music ever written, with one of the most beautiful instruments ever made…
How many other things are we missing as we rush through life?"

Video : http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=myq8upzJDJ
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It's Beginning to Look A Lot Like Christmas!

2011-12-07T06:00:00.000-08:00

So, the blogging has taken a back seat lately.

Sorry.

The picture taking hasn't however!

We are all excited for Christmas around here.

The Christmas Tree is up and decorated, house lights are on,

and presents are secretly being stashed around the house.

The stockings are hung, and the village is up! We are ready!

And this little man couldn't be any cuter.

My only flaw this month already...

I completely forgot to celebrate St. Nick's Day. Ya, that was supposed to be last night and this morning.

Ugh. What a failure! Maybe I'll remember next year!

Thoughts of Spiritual Uplift

2011-12-04T08:32:00.001-08:00

Earlier this week I was asked to help out with a Young Women's activity for our church.

It was on "Choice and Accountability."

I had all of these thoughts prepared, and when I got up there to say it all...

It came out a little jumbled.

SO, here is a little bit of what I meant to say!

Excerpt from Alice In Wonderland:

Alice: "Which path shall I follow?"

Cheshire Cat: "That depends where you want to go. If you do not know where you want

to go, it doesn't matter which path you take."

I believe that it is first important to decide where you want to go and who you want to be before you make decisions. Even those small little decisions every day can be important in determining this.

Second, it is important to prepare yourself for those decisions that will arise in life.

President Monson said, "When the moment for decision arrives, the time for preparation is past."

How do we prepare?

President Monson again suggests that we:

Fill our minds with truth.

Fill our hearts with love.

Fill our lives with service.

Will the decision you make move you closer to your end goal, or pull you farther away?

For me, I would like to live in the eternities with my Heavenly Father, holding my husband and children close by. This is my goal. It's a big one, it takes effort, work, diligence and patience. My Heavenly Father will help me along the way. And my Savior Jesus Christ has made it possible.

Sometimes you might make the wrong decision.

It's ok. There are too many people to help you along the way to give up.

Never give up.

Aha!

2011-12-03T06:00:00.000-08:00

A few "Aha" moments of late:

Tytan has never adjusted to the time change. He is up at 6:30. Oops! Never knew!

Puppies are just like newborns. They pee, poop, and sleep.

Bristol's sippy cups aren't working because the holes in the top have melted together in the dish washer.

(Thanks Dad. Never would have thought of that myself!)

And my favorite: Nobody is perfect. Even those who I think have perfect lives/children don't.

I love "Aha" moments. They seem to ground me. It's like that really cold coke that you finally get your thirsty fingers wrapped around on a really hot hot day. Completely refreshing. They make me feel human again. Not that I don't often think or feel like Superwoman some days, but it's nice not to have the pressure of it all.

For instance: Me and the kids were in our P.J.'s until 2PM today.

Ya.

I know.

Terrible.

Hold on hold on....I wasn't feeling too great. So we had a sick party for mom.

Bristol actually brushed my hair off of my forehead.

Completely reminded me of her patting my back as I threw up with morning sickness when Tytan was just a peanut. She is so sweet. I think that I see a little mother personality blooming in her already.

Anyway, enough of my ramblings. Take a break for yourself today!

xoxoxoxo

Fear and Faith

2011-11-29T06:00:00.000-08:00

It's funny how fear of things changes over the years. When I was younger I had this poster that my Aunt Jenny gave me for my Birthday hanging in my room. I loved the poster. It had ballet slippers laying on top of piano keys, with roses all around. It was awesome. However, in the dark the laces to the ballet shoes made it look like there was this really dark face. It scared me if I ever woke up in the middle of the night disoriented.

Fast forward...

Now I have a family.

One of my biggest fears is my house blowing up with my family inside. I know that it sounds crazy, but it scares me so bad. What are the chances right? Well, lets just say that I know someone, who knows someone, who knew someone that this exact thing happened to.

In a round about way I faced this fear the other day. Here at our house we have a large propane tank in our back yard. It allows us to have heat, and hot water, and a stove that works. Great right? Of course! Well, we had a little change a roo go on in the back yard. I paced the whole time. (Lets just say that I can often be a 'worse case scenario' person). I would have left the house to run errands, but I had to be here. Fortunately the guy calmed my fears and showed me the safety precautions he takes before switching everything out.

Here is what it looked like.

More with facing my fears later...

Our Newest Addition

2011-11-26T06:00:00.000-08:00

Meet Ruby

She is our new yellow lab!

And if you will notice, she isn't quite exactly yellow. Hence the name Ruby.

We are thinking "Ruby Red" but are still a bit undecided.

We got her today, Santa came just a little bit early.

Ruby is my Mr.'s puppy, but let me just tell you:

I picked her out, and I picked her name. I think that I did really well if I don't say so myself! ;) She is pretty cute, and a very good dog (so far)! Here is how I know.

She is "birdie" which is good for bird hunting. (She has actually attacked a pheasant...yes it was already dead, but she went crazy on it!)

When she goes outside from being inside, she goes right to the grass and does her business.

She LOVES Bristol. Literally loves her.

And best of all, when it was bed time we put Ruby in the garage until we had gotten the kids down.

Before we could get out there and make her a comfy little bed, she had done this:

She pulled a blanket down from a bench all by herself and snuggled right in. She is so smart!

When we found her she was fast asleep. She did wake up, but she didn't move! Poor girl is tired!

The kids love her. And I think that Ruby has found her "Mommy." When she is whining, she stands at my feet and wants to be held. I think I've got another baby on my hands. Hopefully she is still a good dog tomorrow!

2011-11-24T06:00:00.000-08:00

HAPPY THANKSGIVING!

I love Thanksgiving. Big feasts, tearing up when you hear what others are thankful for, PIE, and being with family. It is so great! I hope that you are having a great time with your family, and if you need a place to come for a good dinner, come on over. My mom won't mind!

This year I have really noticed now rushed Thanksgiving is. It only takes a couple days or so to prepare Thanksgiving Dinner, and then it's over. The world also starts with Christmas preparations before Thanksgiving is even here. Don't get me wrong, I LOVE Christmas, but Thanksgiving deserves a little bit of recognition. I'll admit, I like to have the majority of my Christmas shopping done before Thanksgiving, but I do love to kick back and enjoy November. I am truly grateful for the holiday.

I start the morning off by having a BIG breakfast. Followed by watching the Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade. It is so much fun! A light snack before the turkey, and then I chow down! My mom each year buys little chocolate turkeys for each place setting from Lee's Candies. They are so good! Dinner is followed by visiting, and pie. And then a little nap or two with some football going on in the background. My cousins go to a good kids movie each year, and we might just take Lil' Bris this year. I think she would love it.

A little twist on Thanksgiving this year is that my Grandpa is in the hospital. He had a bit of a surgery, but will be just fine! He will be there for a few more days. What a bummer. I've caught rumor that some of my cousins will be taking him some dinner, I hope so! I love that man!

Have a wonderful feast today! I hope that you are surrounded by those that you love!

Confessions, at last

2011-11-23T06:00:00.000-08:00

The other night I was calming my sister's 2 month old baby down. She is TINY. Smaller than Big T ever was. I was looking into her little eyes and it hit me HARD that I want another one so bad. I started doing "the blink." They weren't tears of joy either. Why?

Bristol was born 5 weeks early. I was pre-eclamptic, and because Bristol was completely breached I had an emergency c-section. She was in the NICU for one week. read more here
Then Tytan came along. I was determined on having him naturally. Then after 11+ hours of "contractions", 3 epidurals, and an immense amount of pain (to keep it short) Dr. O. demanded another c-section...my uterus was rupturing. Dr. O. was right, 4 of the 5 layers of uterus was gone and Big T was 10 lbs, not 8. Oops! read more here

So, getting my kids here isn't that easy. I can do it right? Well...this is where my denial issues start to come in.

See, if it isn't bad enough having tough delivery and recoveries, I have "Undifferentiated Connective Tissue Disease" on top of it all. This is rheumatoid arthritis, lupus, etc. all squished into one thing. So basically my joints
hurt.
There, I said it for the world to hear.

Let me explain. I was diagnosed at age 18 during my second semester of college. I was so mad, yet relieved that I could get relief from the pain. Arthritis runs in my family, so I wasn't too surprised. (On a side note...to all of you who witnessed a complete change physically, emotionally, and in my personality while a Freshman in college...SO SORRY. My meds required a lot of sleep which was hard to get, and they made me lose my hair, get sick when I ate, develop sores in my mouth and nose, and get tired really fast. Had I known they would do that to me...I may have just gone home until I adjusted. I really am sorry!) But,little did I know what the future held.

Dr.s have told me that a large family just isn't in my future. Ha! What do they know? Not much...I'm going to have 6 or 7. Heavenly Father will help me along the way.

So here are the issues:

1. Two c-sections means all c-sections from here on out. That's major surgery folks, and a little frame like mine can only handle so much of it.
2. A ruptured uterus means a long recovery, and careful examination after giving birth
3.UCTD means going off of my "heavenly" meds in order to have safe pregnancies
4. No meds means pain
5. Pain means joint deterioration
6. Joint deterioration means...well lets just stop there.

My goal is now 4. Just pray I get there k?

I'm not opposed to adoption. To be honest, I haven't given it that much thought. We will see what the future holds!

Now...don't think that I am in the depths of despair over this. I am content with who I am and the trials I'll go through in order to make it back upstairs. An even bigger blessing is that I have two healthy, and adorable children. I would go through it all over and over again to have them here with me. My Heavenly Father has a plan for me...it may not be my idea of a plan, but is it ever? And in this Season of Thanksgiving, I am so grateful to be here with the body that I have. What a blessing motherhood is, no matter how our children become ours. I love them more than anything!

Thanks for listening. If you read that all...you deserve a prize!

Music Fixed, Almost

2011-11-22T06:00:00.000-08:00

I play the violin, or the fiddle.

Whichever I feel like calling it at the moment.

My violin in Carthage, Illinois. *

When I was a Sophomore in High School, I received the best Christmas present EVER.

My violin. It is beautiful.

I was taking lessons at Hartz music shop in Meridian.

I walked into the room, and my teacher wanted me to play a new violin they had in,

just for fun.

I fell absolutely in love with it, and fortunately Santa figured it out.

Well, years have passed and this poor fiddle has been through a battle.

It has lived in Utah, California, Canada, Illinois, and Idaho.

This may be cool if you are a person, but not a very fragile piece of wood.

I took her to the shop.

Sigh.

It is going to be a long haul. Some compare it to going in for major surgery.

A crack in the wood that was once sealed, is now completely laid open.

Yuh oh. Because it costs a pretty penny, it will have to stay open.

I'm sorry. But! It has new strings, new pegs, and a new bridge.

That will do for now! Hopefully we can still make some great music together.

And spread the word. I am taking students!

Both classical and fiddle.

So excited!

*Yes, you just might recognize that window.

Thoughts of Spiritual Uplift

2011-11-20T09:06:00.001-08:00

The unthankful heart discovers not mercies.

Let the thankful heart sweep through the day,

and as the magnet finds the iron,

so it will find in all, in every hour some heavenly blessings.

This week has been truly crazy.

An emotional roller coaster.

And in the midst of it all, my heart is full of gratitude.

Gratitude for a Heavenly Father that loves me,

knows who I am, what my heart desires,

and who has watched over me and those who mean the most to me.

My cup overfloweth with the tender mercies from Heaven.

My sister walked away completely uninjured from a very severe car accident

The first on the scene was a first aid and CPR certified gentlemen.

He stayed with her until the police arrived.

Thank You.

My son choked at a restaurant.

I'm grateful that I'm good at the finger swipe,

even when everyone is staring at me.

It was a close one.

My daughter was a champ at a difficult Dr.'s appointment.

She is going to be great!

Someone very near and dear to my heart was found cancer free.

CANCER FREE!

I could say the words over and over.

Your Questions, My Answers #1

2011-11-14T06:00:00.000-08:00

Hey Steph! Love your idea and I'd love to ask a question that has been on my mind lately. What I want to know is what factored into your decision to have your first child, what were your factors that you and Tyrell considered and prayed about? What stability do you think a relationship needs and what lifestyle do you think a couple needs to be ready for, for that huge jump? I know the timing different for everyone, but could you give me a little bit of commentary on what timing was like for you and what felt right and what didn't? You are en educated woman who lives the gospel and I'm really just needing some advice/commentary/discussion about this topic lately!

This is such a loaded question, and so many factors go in to deciding to become parents. With that said, I'll share with you my thoughts, which don't necessarily make them right for you.

Why we waited 2 years:
My Mr. and I knew that we wanted to be married for a little while before having children. We wanted to know how each other "worked." How we thought about things, handled hard situations, celebrated, how we expressed different parenting ideas etc. We thought that this was important before bringing a baby into our lives. I also knew that it would be too hard on me to have a baby while still in school. (We did cut it close, Bristol was born 3 months after I graduated college.) A lot of moms do have babies while in school, it is possible, but not for me!

When I (we) got baby hungry:
I think every couple does it. We are out in public and see a baby. The wife cries, and the husband wants to play with it. It started happening to us. We wanted one. This meant we wanted the one screaming her lungs out too. We wanted to scoop her up and make her feel better. Babies aren't all roses. But they sure are worth every second of it! We prayed and asked for guidance, we also went to the Temple. Since we believe that it is a commandment to "multiply and replenish" it was easy from there. We had the go ahead from our Heavenly Father. We were so excited. However, in giving advice, deciding when and how many children to have are very private decisions between husband and wife, and hopefully the Lord. These decisions should be prayed about, and when you receive your answer, act upon them with faith.

Having kids is a huge jump in marriage. You can read every book, ask everyone for advice, but you still can't get completely prepared. You just don't quite know what it is like to have a baby until you do. You have to jump into it with both feet and have the faith that you will know what to do when challenges arise (a baby that hasn't pooped in 3 days) or know how to find out what to do. This is when moms, friends, and sisters advice come in handy!

TyRell and I also prepared our home. We wanted a home filled with love without bias. We wanted a clean home where the Spirit could dwell. And we wanted funds sufficient enough to pay for our children. We weren't rich by any means, but we were comfortable. Our children were expensive to get here, and we had an inkling that that they would be before they were born.

You also won't know quite what unconditional love is until you have a baby. Oh my the love that just makes your heart explode when that little bundle of joy is placed in your arms. You also won't know what being selfless is until you have a baby. A woman gives her body to the growth of a baby, and afterward gives every minute. This is not meant to sound demeaning. When I think of mothering, I think of Christ. It is such a Christlike act. It is beautiful and will make you grow so much! I can't quite think of the right words to describe it!

My heart goes out to those women who are or want to be mothers. It is such a divine calling. My prayers are with those who are preparing for parenthood.

If you would like more insight on becoming parents, read this and this.

Bristol born March 16, 2009

Tytan born February 24, 2011

Please feel free to add more insight to mine...I could go on and on and on...but you don't want just my opinion! :)

Thoughts of Spiritual Uplift

2011-11-13T06:56:00.001-08:00

Gratitude unlocks the fullness of life.

It turns what we have into enough and more.

It can turn a meal into a feast, a house into a home,

a stranger into a friend.

Gratitude makes sense of our past and brings peace for today,

and creates vision for tomorrow.

Whoa!

2011-11-11T12:22:00.001-08:00

Did you ever have to make a wish at 11:11 o'clock when you were younger?

I always did.

How cool is today's date? I LOVE it!

I'll be wishing all day for these things:

(in no particular order)

good health for my kids

success in business for my Mr.

a happy home always

safety for me and mine

safety for my Sister Missionary, Ashley

happiness for all of our Veterans and those currently serving

a Happy Holiday Season (13 days 'til Thanksgiving!)

a grateful heart

health, safety, and happiness for all of YOU!

Enjoy today's date. It'll never happen again in your lifetime!

(Okay, so we could say that about every day, so just enjoy the journey every day!)

We are Ready!

2011-11-10T06:00:00.000-08:00

Oh the weather outside is frightful...

Ok ok. It's not even Thanksgiving yet, but I do love my Christmas songs.

We are gearing up our cold wear, and my oh my this little lady looks pretty dang cute!

We usually try and buy neutral colored clothing to be passed down, but I just can't help with the pink.

Hidden Treasures

2011-11-09T06:00:00.000-08:00

Lately Bristol has been "hiding" her toys in random places. Last Sunday she came into the house looking for one in particular. We ransacked the house, and found it in the kitchen cupboard. They are all over the house "sleeping."

Shhhhh.....

We don't want to wake them up. (This goes on all day.)

And oh the surprise when we find one that had been forgotten about!

I love this new habit. I feel like I'm in the kitchen all day either cleaning or fixing meals. It can be monotonous at times. So this has brought a whole new element of humor into the routine. How often do you find a play horse taking a nap under a blankie in your pie dish? I get a kick out of it!

Trusting Mail Carriers

2011-11-08T06:00:00.000-08:00

Did you know that mail carriers used to deliver children for 56 cents?

That's a story opener isn't it? Here is what I know...

Last week my mom went to her local USPS office to deliver two packages to my sister Ashley in Cambodia. This was a long process. When delivering large packages over seas you must list each item separately on special forms. There were so many different items in the packages that it took 5 forms. THEN the USPS employee must enter each item into the computer along with the address, weight, etc. This process was going to take a long while, so this employee handed my mom an article to read while he processed all of the information.

My mom first noticed the black and white picture of a mailman with his mail carrying bag slung over his shoulder. In the bag was a toddler. Yup, a toddler. The article explained that "back in the day"(not sure of the time) mail carriers were so trusted that people would send their children in the mail. All for a cost of 56 cents. If it was an overnight trip, the child would stay at the mail carrier's house. Isn't that bazaar?!

It got my mind whirling around a bit. If I decided to send my kid to Grandma's house, I could just ship her off for a lovely little price.

YA RIGHT! Like that would ever happen these days. My Grandpa thought..."There's a new way to take my Grand kids to Guatemala fishing!"

This just cracked me up. And, it doesn't stop here. I plan to pay a visit to this post office and read this article for myself. (Hopefully make a copy too!)

I've been "Featured!"

2011-11-07T09:54:00.000-08:00

You have probably seen this post,

but it was recently featured here!

Check it out!

I'm pretty excited.

Thoughts of Spiritual Uplift

2011-11-06T06:49:00.000-08:00

For the Beauty of the Earth

For the beauty of the earth, for the beauty of the skies,

For the love which from our birth Over and around us lies,

Lord of all, to thee we raise This our hymn of grateful praise.

For the beauty of each hour Of the day and of the night,

Hill and vale, and tree and flow'r, Sun and moon, and stars of light,

Lord of all, to thee we raise This our hymn of grateful praise.

For the joy of human love, Brother, sister, parent,child,

Friends on earth, and friends above, For all gentle thoughts and mild,

Lord of all, to thee we raise This our hymn of grateful praise.

Hymn #92 LDS Hymn book

Owyhee River

Your Questions, My Answers

2011-11-04T06:00:00.000-07:00

I have wanted to try something a little bit new on the blog here. I'd like to answer your questions about anything. I realize I'm young, with not a lot of experience in life, but it could be worth a shot!

Ask me anything! Personal questions would be great too! Periodically I'll post the questions and answers on the blog.

e-mail them to me at waterskigirl5@hotmail.com, or leave a comment!

Obsession Understood

2011-11-03T12:49:00.000-07:00

I LOVE PICTURES.

Does the phrase "Organize photos" make you cringe? Not me...

So, maybe I'm not so good at taking them all of the time (getting better). But that doesn't mean I dont' love them! Flipping through pictures whether in my hands, in a book, or on the computer is just awesome. I could do it all the time. And here's why.

I have a very crappy memory. I didn't realize this until my husband was talking about his younger years, and I seriously couldn't remember a thing from that time period. I'm not joking. I have what I like to call a "trigger memory." Let me explain. A certain current event, or photo will usually have to trigger a memory from the long ago past for me to remember it. And then I'm on a roll. I can tell ya what I was wearing, who was with me, often the smells in the air, etc.

It was my "Aha" moment. I finally realized why I obsess over going through photos. It is complete nostalgia. And so with that, I have no fear and a lot of excitement for the task I have taken upon myself.

My Mom has about eight huge boxes of unorganized photos in her house dating all the way back to 1984. Guess what I just offered to do? Organize them...dun dun dun. I have already gone through one box in just a couple of hours. I group them by year, then by event. And let me just say, I am so grateful that I have most of my pictures on my computer and backed up in a couple of places. I group them by year, and then in sub files by month. That is just how my brain works. I love it love it love it.

Trick OR Treat...Mainly just treats

2011-10-31T21:20:00.000-07:00

Taking little Bris trick or treating in this particular neighborhood brought back a lot of memories. I used to trick or treat here every year...my parent's neighborhood. It's great. Houses pretty close together, friendly people, and good candy!!! This year Bristol and Jeffrey went in style. It was a great time! Enjoy some pictures of the kiddos in their costumes. We had Rapunzel, Frankenstein, and Nacho Libre!

Trick or Treaters ready for action! (How do you
get a 2 year old to smile for the camera? Geesh!)

Picture perfect!

Happy Halloween

2011-10-31T13:41:00.000-07:00

Happy Halloween!!

To get things started with our Halloween festivities, my sister Annie came over and made these awesome Monster Mouths. So much fun! It was all in preparation for my Grandparent's annual Halloween Party. There are costumes, scary but yummy treats, and lots of fun! Annie ended up winning first place! So cool! I'll share how to make them below!

Tytan was Frankenstein, and TyRell was...TyRell black style.

Bristol as Rapunzel and I as Mother Gothel!

(More/better pictures of the kids coming tonight!)

The family!

And the best Olive Oil and Popeye I've ever seen!

Monster Mouths

You'll need green and red apples, peanut butter, candy corn, marshmallows, and red icing if you want it!
Slice the apples, cover with peanut butter, cut off tips of candy corn, and add some chompers!

Thoughts of Spiritual Uplift

2011-10-30T09:08:00.000-07:00

"When the moment for decision arrives,

the time for preparation is past."

Thomas S. Monson

trail in Logan Canyon

What decisions will you make, and which path will they take down?

Pumpkin Carving

2011-10-29T06:56:00.000-07:00

I love carving pumpkins. Growing up my whole family would go to the pumpkin patch (aka WinCo) and each buy a pumpkin. We would then go home and carve all of them. This consisted of us kids drawing an intricate face picture on our pumpkin and Dad carving it out. The end result...the same squares and triangle faces on each pumpkin. We didn't have too many carving skills...but it was the absolute greatest! We loved it!

So, we went to work on our own this year. The kids didn't last too long. Bristol won't touch the innards, and Tytan wanted to eat them. It was pretty funny! The end result, quite the masterpiece!

The Farmstead

2011-10-29T06:55:00.000-07:00

Getting out with two kids isn't always easy. The "luggage" you have to pack around, the dirty diapers you have to change in public, and the public restrooms you have to take your 2 year old to. Not to mention hoping that they behave and have a good time. It can be exhausting! I've found that as long as I pack our bags the night before, and just relax and go with the flow, the kids are way better behaved and we all have a blast.

That said...

We went to "The Farmstead" last weekend and had a blast! Cousin Jeffie and Hazel accompanied us with Aunt Katie. There was just too much to do, and I took way too many pictures. But here are some of my favorites! Enjoy!

Bristol riding Snow Ball

Hahaha, I just realized Jeffie's head is for the girl, and
Bristol the boy. Oops!

They had swings made out of tires, in the form of cows! Cute!

Riding the Cow Train. Thanks Ty for capturing the moment.

For Mercy Sakes

2011-10-28T07:00:00.000-07:00

Mercy sakes alive!

This is a Timber wolf killed in Sun Valley, ID by the fish and game.

I don't know why they killed it...

but would you really have to ask?

'Nuff said.

The Right place, The Right Time

2011-10-27T21:12:00.000-07:00

Don't you just love it when you feel like you are in the right place at the right time? And things just click into place? It's like a breath of fresh air.

Often during my day I feel like I'm running at 100 mph trying to get things done, and so is everyone around me. It's exhausting. I've been trying to slow down a little bit, and wouldn't ya know it. Some good things have happened!

A couple of days ago I ran an errand to buy a metronome. On my way out I hear behind me a car door shut. I usually don't look, but I did. And guess what? My high school orchestra teacher! Ha! Who would have thought!

Then today I gave a violin lesson. (Her first with me.) It went really well, a few things to work on, but it should be a great relationship. While "getting it out" on facebook my Elementary and Jr. High orchestra teacher commented on my wall. Even crazier! This turns into an e-mail, followed by exchanging numbers.

And why would I tell all of you this?

Sometimes we put the past behind us, but I like to cling onto the people and the feelings that I have/had for them. I think it's so great to rekindle relationships and pick up where you left off. (Especially now that I'm an adult) and not a pupil. This is so great!

We are all people with feelings, lives, hard times, and good times. We all have talents, and we all have a story to tell. Remember that when you are in contact with people throughout your day. I'm so excited to meet up with "people from my past" and get to know them better.

It is so fun living where I grew up again and bumping into old acquaintances. Hopefully I will bump into you too!

Lessons

2011-10-27T14:18:00.000-07:00

I have a new violin student.

She starts in 45 minutes.

I know, I shouldn't be on here.

But for some reason I have been really nervous about starting back up in the teaching world, and I just had to get it out to somebody.

Why?

Maybe it's because I have kids, maybe because it's been a year since I've had a student.

I don't know. I'm just a bit nervous.

Everything is ready to go...just missing a few books lost in the move.

I'll find them by next week hopefully.

Maybe I'm nervous because I love playing the violin, and I just want my student(s) to also.

(Yes, I hope I get more students.)

So, wish me luck. I'll let ya know how it goes.

So "...rosin up your bow and play your fiddle hard..."

Hair Creations

2011-10-26T08:00:00.000-07:00

It all started in Oakley. My mother-in-law does hair professionally. I had never thought to try this on little Bris. It is so cute! I didn't take a picture the first time around of the finished product, but tried it myself a while later back at home. I just love it on her.

Grandma Stevens at work

Isn't she a cute little lady?

Seen this?

2011-10-25T08:00:00.000-07:00

Heard of The Killers? I love 'em. I found a video that you might like! I do anyway.

I love where he says something along the lines...your heart finds another chamber. LOVE it!

2011-10-24T13:26:00.000-07:00

A couple of weeks ago my friend Diana asked me to write a post for her blog on Motherhood. I couldn't resist and sat down to do it that night. She just recently posted it to her blog, but I thought that I would share it with my readers as well! To read more, go here.

"Motherhood" is such a huge topic! I feel like I learn something new everyday, which is good I guess! I won't be the first to admit nor the last to deny that being a mom is hard. I think that the hard stuff changes with each phase of life too. Sometimes being a mom feels lonely, and we go unappreciated and unnoticed. However true this feels, it is so not true. Being a mom is such a wonderful gift, and a calling for us divine women from a Heavenly Father who knows we can do it! I love this quote,

"Motherhood is more than bearing children, though it is certainly that. It is the essence of who we are as women." Sheri Dew

Here is one of the first big "Aha" moments I had as a new mom.
I was once in conversation with someone who is highly accomplished by the world's standards (which isn't bad...just sayin'). This person asked "So, do you work?" While holding my infant daughter I quickly replied sheepishly "No. I'm just a mom." That night I realized how wrong I was. I'm not just a mom. I am a MOM! Never again did I ever say that I'm just a mom. That small world adds great meaning to the idea, and not in a good way. Being a mom is hard work, and thus should be exclaimed with pride!

I have also learned to always have a Plan B, C, D, etc. etc. Motherhood is not boring, and will always surprise you when you least expect it. I'm still learning not to sweat the small stuff, and that people staring at me while at the grocery store with screaming children are only staring because they were just there doing the same thing with their children, and had forgotten how hard it is! (At least that's what I tell myself;))

There is also no perfect mom. It may seem like it when we read magazines, blogs, or talk to other friends. I've learned not to compare my weaknesses with someone else's strengths. It just isn't fair, and leads to negative feelings. I do set goals and strive to be better, but it takes time! I take it one day at a time, and know that my children will love me, and are so quick to forgive! I have learned to lose myself in love, and that each day my heart grows more full.

I love being a MOM!
Stephanie

Mother of Bristol 2 1/2, and Tytan 7 months

Big T is 8 Months

2011-10-24T07:18:00.000-07:00

Isn't he handsome? I sure think so!

As of October 24th, he is a whopping 8 months.

WOW! The time has sure flown by.

Here is what this guy is up to!

A wonderfully odd army crawl.

Sitting up all by himself.

Eating finger foods galore!

Six teeth! (Four at once. Ouch!)

Babbles like crazy.

Sleeps like a champ.

A complete Mommy's boy. I hope that never changes :)

Loves his big sister, and watches over her like a hawk.

Doesn't quite like the sound of the violin...I'll work on that one.

Loves to go for walks outside.

LOVES dogs. (My future is flashing before my eyes. Here we go.)

Still won't hold his own bottle. Refer back to "Mommy's boy."

Thoughts of Spiritual Uplift

2011-10-23T10:19:00.000-07:00

"A Child's Prayer"

Heavenly Father, are you really there?

And do you hear and answer every child's prayer?

Some say that Heaven is far away.

But I feel it close around me as I pray.

Heavenly Father, I remember now.

Something that Jesus told disciples long ago.

"Suffer the children to come to me".

father in prayer I'm coming now to thee.

Pray, He is there.

Speak, He is listening.
You are His child.

His love now surrounds you.

He hears your prayer.

He loves the children.

Of such is the kingdom.

The kingdom of Heav'n.

Go here to listen to the song. Click "words and music" to hear it all!

Sometimes life gets going so well, that I forget what it's like to have a trial. Then real life hits and something happens. This is the song that I always sing in my head, or hum as I'm going about my day.

I have a quote in my scriptures that says, "Trials are are an evidence of a Father's love. They are given as blessings to His children. They are given as opportunities for growth."

H. Burke Peterson

Yes, I ZUMBA

2011-10-21T08:00:00.000-07:00

So, I started ~~dance~~ baton lessons at age 3. Ya, I was little. It was fun. I don't remember it that much early on, but I continued until 14 when we ran out of a coach. I loved it. Then I took other lessons and spent a while on the High School dance team. (A Capital Golden Girl if you must know).

I still love to dance and move. The only problem, making my post pregnancy body x's 2 move the way it used to.

Solution: ZUMBA! I love it. It's dancing, intense, and burns a lot of calories all at the same time. You don't have to be perfect at it either, and nobody will laugh at you if you mess up. I started a few months after having Bristol in Logan, and now have started back up again!

Do a little research and find a teacher near you! It is so worth it!

Finding Joy in the Journey

2011-10-20T08:00:00.000-07:00

Yesterday I was doing the dishes (again) and tears just about came spilling out of my eyes. It had been a hard day. Sick kids, cleaning, dirty diapers, cleaning, sick kids, teething baby, cleaning, ugly telephone calls, etc. You get the picture.

Then-I laughed.

It hit me like a ton of bricks that my Mr. was going to come home beaten down and burdened with an even tougher day. I hate those days.

It made me think: "No matter what phase of life you are in, there are going to be tough days."

I remembered back to when Ty and I were first married. We had a teeny apartment, no kids, no furniture, and BIG dreams. We kept saying, this summer will be better when we are making good money. This went on for a couple years. We were happy, but had even BIGGER dreams. We will be happier when we start our family. Then we had Bristol and we were happier. Much happier. Then- We will be happier when we have our own house, don't have to move around a lot, a career "big boy" job, and continue to expand our family. Now we are there. Of course we are much happier and our love for each other and our kids have grown tremendously. We like to be positive about things and are forever grateful for the blessing we receive each day. We have made great friends every step of the way, and have really enjoyed the past 4 1/2 years.

BUT

I have learned that I need to breathe each moment in and really take life by the rains and just hang on. It can be a wild ride, but completely worth all the while. President Monson put it best when he said "Find Joy in the Journey." We are enjoying the journey.

My attitude quickly changed, and before my Mr. was home, dinner was set at the table (again) and we were chit chatting among the crying Big T. and talkative Bristol B. It was great. This is why we are here, this is exactly what we are up for. I'm counting my blessings each day, I love life. Even when it is hard. When I need to cry it out, I do it. When my Mr. needs to vent, I let him do it. We feel much better afterward! A hard time at work and a hard day with kiddos isn't what we will remember in 50 years, it's that WE DID IT! Until that 50 year mark has hit, I'll just keep on keepin on!

And remember

FIND JOY IN THE JOURNEY!

The Sickies

2011-10-19T08:00:00.000-07:00

I wish I looked that good while sick!

This poor little thing has been a bit down lately. Being sick is so hard, especially when you are a busy 2 1/2 year old. So, I did all of the things that my mom used to do for me when I was sick. It made being sick not so bad.

-watching movies all day if we wanted

-an activity to do while laying down (coloring)

-lay on the couch as long as we wanted

-and best yet: chopped ice with a bit of 7UP flavoring! (she loved it)

What things did your mom do for you?

My Sister-Missionary

2011-10-18T13:21:00.000-07:00

You may know Ashley. Well, let me put it this way, you should all come to know Ashley. She is my second younger sister, and no words can quite describe the "life" she brings to the family. She is full of it, whimsical, spunky, and awesomely lovable.

She is in a rural town a little bit away from Pnom Phen, Cambodia serving a mission for our church. She has been there for one year and one month. She has gotten sick, had stitches put in her leg, dealt with some heat, and fallen in love with the people. As a brief update: she is doing AWESOME! I hear from her almost weekly via e-mail. It is one of the highlights of my week! Maybe I should include snip-its of her letters? Let me know if you are interested.

This is where I know she is supposed to be. However, that doesn't make it any easier for me here back at home. I miss that girl! She will come home April 2012. She may be looking forward to it, but when the time comes I'm sure she won't be quite ready to come home. I'll be ready and waitin'. I love ya Ash!

Ashley on her bike. I don't think I'll ever complain about our rain again!

Her companion Sister Pin. They always go in twos!

Aren't the people beautiful! Always happy too!

I think I'll make her wear that hat when she gets home! Gotta love it.

From the Vine

2011-10-17T14:11:00.000-07:00

My all time favorite drink...juice drink I should say...is GRAPE! I credit this to my Grandma Doreen. She and I love our Welches Grape Juice. When I met TyRell and made it out to his house I also fell in love with his mom's home made grape juice.

This last weekend we were down in Utah, and guess what we did? Made grape juice!!! The whole house smelled of concord grapes. I was in a bit of heaven. I thought I would share the process with ya!

What you'll need:

Water bath canner
A lot of Concord Grapes (one quart of juice needs 1 c. grapes)
A lot of sugar (one quart needs 1/2 c. sugar)
Quart size glass canning jars and lids
Time to do it all and a good sitter
and to make the job a lot easier a canning funnel, jar lifter, magnetic lid lifter(you can buy these essentials in a kit)

What you'll do: I broke this down into a lot of steps. Don't fret, it is really easy!

1. Wash all of your jars and rings. DO NOT re-use lids.
2. Stem and wash all of your grapes! This is the worst part...but hang in there. It is worth it! Have your kids help ya!

Stemmed grapes smell so good!

3. Place lids in small pot of hot water on stove. Keep them there during your canning process. Lids have to be hot when placed on jars.
4. Get the water steaming in your canner. You will want it to continually steam, so keep it on a heat setting right for that. (Medium/High)
5. If your hot tap water isn't really hot, you will have to keep some hot water simmering on the stove (kettle would make filling jars easy!).
6. While the water is warming up, start filling your jars. Use the funnel for the grapes and sugar.
1 c. grapes in the bottom
1/2 c. sugar
fill jar 1/4'' from the top with hot water (from step 5) (rinse the funnel out once with water)
7. With a clean, wet rag wipe the top of the jar clean. Check for any chips that could break a seal. If jar has a chip, don't use.
8. Grab your pot of lids and magnetic lid grabber and place lids on jars, followed by rings.Place pot back on stove to keep warm.
9. Shake the jars until sugar is dissolved while singing "Shake your booty."(hehe)

Your jar should look like this before sealing.

10. Place jars in canner. (Usually fits 7). Cover with lid. Once the steam resumes set timer for 15-20 minutes. While those are steaming fill more jars.

11. Remove jars with jar lifter and place on old towel on counter to cool. Be careful not to clink jars together as they could break!

This is what finished jars will look like!

My mother-in-law and I made just over 100 quarts for myself. It took 11/2 days (with breaks!)

How to tell if jars have sealed- You should hear a "pop" as the lids are sealing. Also, the top will be really firm.

What if my lids don't seal? Every batch will have a few that don't seal. If a TON aren't sealing either you are doing something wrong, or it was a faulty box of lids. Don't panic. Tip the jar upside down and wait a while. If that doesn't work you may have to replace the lid and re-seal. (Only do this if a lot of the jars didn't seal. If it's only one or two, just drink them right away!)

Store your jars in a cool, dark place. Enjoy!

**For more information on canning, click here for a good website.

Thoughts of Spiritual Uplift

2011-10-16T20:28:00.000-07:00

"Suppose no one is as handsome or as beautiful as he or she wishes, or as brilliant in school or as witty in speech or as wealthy as we would like, but in a world of varied talents and fortunes that we can't always command, I think that makes even more attractive the qualities we can command-such qualities as thoughtfulness, patience, a kind word, and true delight in the accomplishment of another. These cost us nothing, and they can mean everything to the one who receives them."

Jeffrey R. Holland

Awareness

2011-10-15T13:06:00.000-07:00

So, today on Facebook it says that today is "Worldwide Pregnancy, and Infant Loss Remembrance Day-Miscarriage, Stillbirth, SIDs."

I thought it interesting that my Mr. and I chose today of all days to support a local cause in Kamas, Ut. You see, little Kinley passed away about a month ago. Her mother Paige was my Mother in law's Young Woman in church. Kinley was 7 months old. Sure, she didn't pass away at our near birth, and it wasn't SIDS either, but she is gone from this Earthly existence none the less. Paige is raising money for funeral costs and a headstone. She is only 21 years old.

Can I just re-iterate my testimony about eternal families. I am so grateful for them. I have both of my babies, and I don't know what it is like to lose one. But to those of you who have, you will see them again! This doesn't mean that losing a baby/child won't be difficult, but it just might make life a little bit easier.

To those of you who have lost a child, I love you, and your Heavenly Father loves you.

God Bless.

Laundry Miracle

2011-10-13T07:00:00.000-07:00

Isn't it so aggravating when you open up your washer or drier and find a mess? Anything from washing and drying a crayon, gum, or having colors fade is such a pain.

Well, last night around 11 PM I had this nagging thought to go put the brights in the drier. Nah, too tired.

Big Mistake.

This morning after putting them in the drier, I pulled them out to find that HOT PINK had bled on to Bristol's light pink jacket, and Tytan's shirt. I was so mad. Every single article of clothing had been washed multiple times and shouldn't have bled....unless you leave them over night in the washer. Oh mercy. Totally my fault.

So, I washed the bled on clothes again. Nope.
Soaked them. Helped a little.
Soaked them in HOTT water with Oxy Clean and All. Yay!!! I couldn't believe it. Stains are out!

Here are my laundry must haves:
All Free and Clear detergent
Oxy Clean ( the BIG box)
Murphey's Oil Soap (great for greasy stains)
Stain removing bar soap ( I have Fels-Napthia Heavy Duty)

What is in your laundry room?

2011-10-12T07:44:00.000-07:00

I'm so glad that we call it "Potty Training" and not "Potty Perfection."

Some days I feel like I didn't do any work in getting Bristol b potty trained. But then I have to remember that she is only 2. I'm 21 and holding, and I still have close calls. C'mon, don't deny that you don't do the potty dance every once in a while.

So of course I got it on the camera. Couldn't resist. Poor thing will probably get back at me for this one some day. Just living proof that we aren't perfect at our house!

P.S. I know...the hair. She insists on two braids. I try!

Candy Only!

2011-10-11T08:00:00.000-07:00

I'm not the master mind behind this one, that would be my sister. However, I did make it all by myself and it only took 15 minutes! (You may not be amazed, but for a crafting dummie you should be proud!)

A Halloween Trick or Treat bucket that is too cute to boot! I just can't wait until it's filled with candy!

You'll need:

1 bucket (this was plastic see through, allowing for decorations in and out, with a lid too!)
fun Halloween scrapbook paper
tape/glue/rubber cement etc. anything sticky!

My "Almost" Child

2011-10-10T08:00:00.000-07:00

Have you ever heard of "Almost" children? Well, I have one.

Don't know what they are? Let me explain.

Me: Ty, will you please clear off the table?
Ty: Sure

A few minutes pass.

Me: Ty, is the table cleared off? (As I'm secretly staring at it.)
Ty: YE-ES!

The table has the ketchup, a hot pad, and a glass on it.

Trust me, I'm not complaining! I actually have to just laugh at it. It really is hysterical! It made me think "What would happen if I was an 'almost' mom? Almost fix dinner, almost do the laundry, almost clean the bathrooms. Ha! Wouldn't everyone be absolutely miserable?

Here's a 'woot woot' for being a get 'er done...all the way mom!!

Thoughts of Spiritual Uplift

2011-10-09T21:03:00.000-07:00

Death.
It scares me.
Am I afraid to die?
NO.
I'm afraid of what I would leave behind.
I'm afraid of those I love passing away.

What a depressing way to start a blog post right? Sorry, but church got me thinking today.

Death is a scary topic, that no one talks about much. You have probably had someone close to you pass away, as have I. Two close friends, Great-Grandparents, and an infant cousin. I have actually been fairly fortunate to not experience a lot of tragedy in my life, and for that I am truly grateful.

What I am even more grateful for is my faith in a loving Heavenly Father. You see, I believe that He loves us so much, that He devised a plan where families can be together forever. I'll see my friends and family after I die in Heaven. Isn't that beautiful?

We talked about this in church today. I thought it ironic that it was the same day I chose to wear a certain piece of jewelry. A watch that was given to me by my deceased Great-Grandmother, before she died. I hardly ever wear it, and on the day that I did I was reminded that she isn't that far away, I'll see her again.

Isn't it beautiful. A vintage Elgin wind up watch.

I believe that I will be reunited with those I love in Heaven. This brings me so much joy! I'll believe it for you too ;)

Picky Eater Solved

2011-10-08T08:00:00.000-07:00

Bristol is a picky eater. It has been a battle for quite some time. You could probably agree with your kids, or kids you know. It just happens. I keep offering and offering different things, but it's always the same.

Well, on a whim one day I created this:

Grilled cheese, strawberries, fish crackers

I know, maybe not the healthiest selection, but it's a start! Every day now Bristol asks for her "face lunch!" It makes me giggle inside.

Now on to happy and healthy eating!

Now if you want to get really fancy, check out the blog "Fun Food Fridays" on my side bar. She is insanely creative!

Cookies 'n Milk

2011-10-07T07:06:00.000-07:00

I'm always taken back at how some of the most simple things create lasting memories. For example:

Tonight I called the family around the table for cookies and milk. We laughed and giggled, and ended up staying around the table for quite a while. I just took every second of it in...slowly. It was so much fun.

Then it hit me. I know why this is so much fun! Flash back to my younger years.

Dunking cookies (and not any cookies I might mention, Chips Ahoy) was serious business in my family. My dad had rules for the family event. I'll paint the scene.

The whole family, 6 girls, mom and dad, would sit around the table with our shallow glasses full of milk. We each also had a stack of cookies right next to us. A large box of Chips Ahoy! would be in the middle of the table for when we ran out. You would think we were about to play a serious game of ROOK or something, but no. Just dunking cookies. Here are the rules:

1. Don't dunk your first cookie in the milk until dad says "One, two, three dunk."
2. Don't let your cookie break while soaking

Penalty: NO MORE COOKIES!

I heard a mom once say "Feed your teenagers cookies, and you can get anything out of 'em."
Rang true in our family. Didn't matter what time of day or night, we would dunk. It was the best. This tradition even carried over into our family rafting trips on the Salmon River. If you have dunked with our family, you are a lucky few. Seriously!
Seems funny and a bit strange perhaps, but some great conversations came out of dunking cookies.
Hopefully we are on the right track!

BTW, rules don't count for the little ones! :)

Even Big T enjoyed some cookie!

You Make Me HAPPY When Skies are Grey

2011-10-05T20:44:00.000-07:00

If you were to ask me "What is your favorite season?" I would quickly respond SUMMER! I love the heat, love the tan, the water, love everything about it. Don't get me wrong, I'm no seasonal depression gal. I love certain parts of the other seasons but overall summer is best!

Today however, I realized that there are some great things about rainy and grey days. Yesterday it was completely overcast. Today it rained. Take that back. It POURED. I had to get ~~the kiddos~~ myself out of the house after spending yesterday indoors. I was completely restless. However, getting soaked putting the kids in the car, taking them out, and putting them back in a few more times didn't quite do it for me. So we came home. It was sweet! I was almost giddy as I grabbed my old college hoodie and sweat pants, slipped on my pink fuzzy slippers, and played on the floor with the kids. Times like that are meant for colder weather! (Some wood to start a fire in the fireplace would have been nice, but I won't complain.)

These two make me HAPPY when skies are grey.

Gotta love that orange carrot nose!

And then my Mr. came home. So make that the three that make me HAPPY!
My Mr. literally acted out Barnyard Dance! by Sandra Boynton.

If you haven't read it, you should!
Great kids book.

And to top everything off, Bristol wanted to wear her new shoes to bed, and her prayer (as always) was hilarious. So, no more complaining about grey skies!

Home

2011-10-04T08:00:00.000-07:00

They say "Home is where your heart is." Well, our hearts have definitely settled here. We love it. The space that we have is amazing! Come on by and say hi! We would love visitors!

Stevens
Est. 9.9.11

side yard...don't get lost lil' Bris

Bye Bye Binky, Bye

2011-10-03T21:14:00.000-07:00

Sometimes being a mommy is hard. I'm not one to deny that every day time-outs, cleaning, fixing lunches, nap time struggles, and tantrums are easy. Tonight was no exception, and this was pure emotionally hard.

Tonight we said good bye to the bink. I think that it was harder for me than for Bristol B herself. She cried and wailed, asking for her bink back. But, I cried too.

In preparation, we (my Mr. and I) told her that last night was it, no more bink. Tonight we carried her outside. She had her favorite bink in her mouth, and her little fingers clutching more. Opening the lid to the garbage can she turned away. After being told to throw them in there, there was no hesitation. I was quite surprised! Not a second later and she was asking for them back.

I cried.

Bristol was born with a binky in her mouth It's no joke. So why now? It has been a long time coming. The pediatrician told me before she was three to throw it away. I know I know, she's not three. I would have gladly done it a year ago. The timing has just been so off! With moving, getting a new little brother, and moving again, I didn't want to make life harder. But now it's done.

Guilt.

I think I might feel pretty bad for a while. Poor little thing.

the aftermath

Favorite Things

2011-09-30T08:25:00.000-07:00

As tradition, mia familia watches General Conference every Fall in McCall, Id. I can't wait! There is nothing better than sitting around the fire listening to latter day Prophets fill your heart with uplifting messages.

And better yet, eating yummy food and lounging around all day!

I'll wake up after sleeping in, maybe shower, maybe not. Maybe put my makeup on, eat an awesome breakfast of huckleberry pancakes, probably stay in my jammies, and then turn the TV on. In between sessions I'll change in to my cleaner not-slept-in jammies and go on a walk in the crisp fall air down to the lake. Doesn't that sound like relaxing? Oh and the naps I'll take! They are glorious.

There is no agenda really, just pure entertainment. literally

Wait a second...that was before I had kids. Ha!

Much of it might still be the same, but entertaining the kiddos provides another dimension to General Conference. A 2 almost 3 year old won't sit around and watch old guys talk on TV, so here is what I do.

Lots of different coloring books, snacks, sticker books, snacks, toys, snacks, an i pad with awesome games, and snacks. Did I mention snacks?

Really, this is one of my most favorite things. My "Thoughts of Spiritual Uplift" journal might go untouched as I wrestle the kids, but that doesn't mean that I won't listen intently and get the most out of every talk. And can I mention the music? I don't believe in rushing off to go do something while the choir sings. Sometimes that can be just as powerful as listening to the talks.

As far as I know, General Conference is aired on BYU TV, but check your local listings. You can also listen on line at the above listed link. Enjoy your weekend, I will!

Alive and Lovin' It

2011-09-10T15:14:00.000-07:00

Yes, we are alive. I know you were all getting worried. As most of you, August flew by in a wink and September is upon us! We are doing so great! We bought a home in Middleton, Id. (pictures to come) and we couldn't be more content! There is just something about having your OWN place!

Bristol B is quite the princess these days. She just talks and talks, and has quite the dance moves. She loves her new house, but when asked "Bristol, who's house is this?" she replies "Scott's." You see, Uncle Scott came to help us move in. I think she is a little bit confused! She'll get used to it. The poor girl has lived in 7 different "homes'' now, so I don't blame her!

Big T is still big! Weighing in at 24 lbs at 6 months. Whew! I can hardly believe it, my arms can though! He LOVES his baby food, and anything else to put in his mouth. He rolls all over the place and is really close to sitting up on his own. His most favorite thing to do is watch his big sister. Probably the cutest adoration I have ever witnessed!

That's all for now! When we get internet, I'll be on more often!

Annual McCall trip

2011-08-21T20:42:00.001-07:00

Warning: A lot of pictures!

McCall was so great! How could it not be? Only thing to make it better would have been TyRell there with us. Nonetheless, we had a great time!

After doing some skiing on the boat, Bristol sat on my wet lap. This made her have to "go" if ya know what I mean. So we had to strip her naked! She made the walk up to the cabin very entertaining, stopping to pick flowers on the way.

My little Diva!

Roasting smores. An Erekson family favorite...

Both moms and all three grandkids! What a shot!

Nana and Grandad along for a boat ride.

Bristol loves her ice cream. Doesn't get much better than Ice Cream Alley! We love it there! HUGE scoops for not much! Bristol's favorite is "pink" ice cream. The mixture of pink ice cream and hot weather made quite a mess!

Bristol's first tube ride!
"Faster Grandpa!"

Home made ice cream...mmmmm!

Uncle Grant brought home the BEST hammocks from his mission in Brazil. We had too much fun being lazy in them together!

Moves from the Past

2011-08-19T21:21:00.000-07:00

TyRell and I have been married since December of '06. That makes 4 1/2 years. Wanna know how many times we have moved?

NINE!

Our move on Tuesday will make TEN.

Here is our rundown. (I know, boring. But hey, I don't want to forget!)

January 2007: we had our first apartment in Logan.
It was teeny, but quaint. Really close to campus. We were both in school!
May 2007: we moved to Valejo, CA.
Ty sold for Stone Security and I worked in the office. We went to baseball games, checked out San Francisco, and stayed safe luckily! This is where we found the name "Bristol" for a future daughter!
August 2007: moved back to a different apartment in Logan.
For some reason this year is a blur. Seriously! We were both still in school...
May 2008: moved to Riverside, CA.
We visited Ty's mission in Mexico, and Ty sold for Stone Alarm. This is where we found out Bristol was on her way!
August 2008: moved back to Logan
I continued with my last semester of school, student teaching. It was hard being pregnant, but I graduated in December. Ty...still in school! And our little Bris was born! What a joy!
May 2009: moved to San Jose, CA
Little Bris became quite the traveler. Another summer in Cali! Having family close by made it a bit better!
August 2009: moved back to Logan
TyRell graduated with his bachelors, we went on a great cruise, and we prepped for the masters program coming up.
May 2010: moved to Nanaimo, B.C., Canada
Now Bris was really the world traveler. Ty sold for APX, and I played with Bris! This is where we found out Tytan was on his way!
July 2010: moved to the Victoria, Canada
Our office was a traveling office...so after living in a hotel for a while, we finally made it to Victoria. Whenever I think of this place I get sick. Literally. I was so sick while we lived there...maybe one day I'll get over that! Thanks Big T.
August 2010: moved back to Logan
Ty graduated with his Masters in Accounting, and Big T. joined us here!
August 2011: move to Boise, Id.

We will miss you Logan. You have been great to us!

RunP

2011-08-19T11:05:00.000-07:00

Last year I read "The Help" by Katheryn Stockett. Loved the book! Last night I went to the movie with a few girlfriends. It was so great! A movie is at it's best when it makes you laugh, cry, and hurt in two hours! This hit the spot. I loved it! You have to go see it. To make the evening even better was how it all started!
We were in line deciding what treats to get. I made a joke about how if i got the BIG drink that I would have to pee half way through the movie. Well, the poor kid behind the counter said, "This might sound awkward, but did you know that there is an app that lets you know when there is a slow spot in the movie so you can...RUN P!" I started laughing so hard! I don't have a smart phone, so this may be late news to some of you, but it's not to me! Hahahaha!

And now back to packing. YIKES!

Edumicated and Gradiated...almost

2011-08-04T12:01:00.000-07:00

TyRell has his last day of school EVER tomorrow. I know that he is excited, but I think that my excitement is right up there with his. He has worked so hard and sacrificed so much to finish school. We are sure ready to move onto the next chapter in life. I am proud of him! I have felt truly blessed. Every summer for the last 5 years he has worked selling alarm systems far away from home. He has missed out on his beloved backpacking and fishing trips all to make money. However, this money has provided a wonderful lifestyle for us throughout the school year where he doesn't have to worry about work and is able to take a full load of classes. Truly blessed. If I could think of good enough words to brag about him more I would...but they don't exist! As for graduation presents you ask? Ha, don't have one yet. I know what I'm getting for him, but maybe a picture of it will have to do. You can't buy them here in Logan...you will just have to wait and see! But we are having a good little celebration this weekend by going camping. The Steven's side is having a family reunion and we are headed there right after class tomorrow! Can't wait!

Growing Up

2011-08-02T21:11:00.000-07:00

This Friday TyRell "graduates" with his MAcc from USU. Time has gone by so incredibly fast! It doesn't seem like that long ago my parents were driving me down here to Logan from Boise for my Freshman year of college. That was SEVEN YEARS ago! It honestly feels like yesterday. I sat behind my dad and cried the whole way there. I sucked it up while I met my roommates and said my good byes, but then cried again all night knowing that I had left my home.

Now, seven years, one marriage, and two great kids later I'm fighting the tears and emotions as we look for a home in the Boise area. TyRell was offered and accepted a job in Eagle, Id. and begins August 29th. We are so incredibly grateful and excited to have work and be able to finally settle down somewhere! I am excited to be near my family and have Bristol's and Tytan's cousins close by. At the same time I am so sad to be leaving Logan. Logan has become my home. I have GREAT friends here, and have created so many memories in this area. It will always hold a special place in my heart. Logan has been very generous and i will be forever grateful for my experiences here. i am also so thankful for the many opportunities that lay ahead!

We aren't sure when we are moving, or where to exactly yet. But it is coming shortly! Wish us luck as we house hunt, and please leave any advice if you have any!

WILDE Family Reunion

2011-07-31T20:01:00.000-07:00

The Wilde family reunion was held in Oakley, Ut at Grandma and Grandpa Wilde's home. It is beautiful there. Bristol rode a REAL pony. Yes, I said REAL pony. A while back Ty and I brought my sister Ashley to Oakley. As we were entering the valley there is a very large red barn. It's not your typical barn, but more like a "Hollywood" barn that you would see in the movies. Ashley saw it and exclaimed "Look, a REAL barn." Ty and I just laughed. Well, you might laugh at me, but I always thought that a pony was just another name for a baby horse. When I'm wrong I'll admit it, and boy was I wrong. This is a REAL pony. ;)
I'm so proud of Bristol for riding it too! I have always said that I believe horses to be one of God's most beautiful creatures, and I'm pretty afraid of them. Ty's cousins have it out to change my mind, but until then Bristol is braver than I am.

I didn't get a picture, but Ty's Mom, Aunt, and cousin all twirled the baton and brought them to the reunion. It brought back some great memories of my twirling days. I had so much fun twirling when I was younger, and it was great to try and do it again!

F.R.I.E.N.D.S.

2011-07-31T19:50:00.001-07:00

We have some great friends here in Logan. Bristol has some pretty cute buddies.First, her little bro "Big T." Aren't they cute? I think so.

Meet Brock. I caught them like this after they had been swimming at the aquatic center. Too funny.

4th of July...a Titch Behind

2011-07-31T19:27:00.000-07:00

The 4th of July this year was great! Most traditions I LOVE. Parades, rodeos, fireworks, BBQs, however one this year was quite different than the rest. It'll take some getting used to. At 5AM in Oakley, Ut a cannon is fired every 10 or so minutes down the streets of town for about an hour. 5AM! However, the rest of the day was great. It all started with a fun parade!

Followed by some good ol' rodeo'in. The Oakley rodeo was a BLAST. I've only ever been to a few, and this one was great. World class cowboys, "Princesses" as Bristol called the rodeo queens, and some great bull riding.

Paying respect

It almost felt like date night. Having the kid's grandparent's around is great! They love to hold the kids which sure frees us up!
A painting of Grandpa Wilde on one of the walls at the Oakley Rodeo Grounds. Leon Wilde is TyRell's Grandpa on his Mom's side.

BEAR LAKE

2011-07-10T19:03:00.000-07:00

A couple of weekends ago we packed up and drove to Bear Lake. We just relaxed and had a good time in the sun! Getting ready to go was quite funny. Bristol wanted to be "packed " so I threw in the trunk. Next thing I knew she wanted her princess helmet on. I couldn't resist taking a picture!

We had a great time! You can't go to Bear Lake without getting a Raspberry Shake, which we did! Both of the kids slept the whole way home, I think that they had a great time!

Tim McGraw

2011-07-01T20:20:00.001-07:00

A bit ago in Boise, Hailey, Chrissy, Kate, and I enjoyed an AMAZING concert! My Dad and Annie weren't able to go, so Kate and I got their tickets. Can you spell L.U.C.K.Y.? It was so much fun. I always tell myself, "Why would I buy tickets to go to a concert when I can just listen to their CD?" Well let me remind all of you...it is SO MUCH BETTER LIVE! Seriously, if you are ever contemplating, just get the tickets. We had a blast. Our seats were wicked close to the stage. Literally perfect!
The Band Perry opened first. They are sooooo good. Very entertaining, and totally better than the radio or CD. That doesn't happen very often, but they were great!
Chrissy, Hailey, Me, Kate. Kate looks so cute pregnant, and she was a trooper considering we pretty much stood for the whole concert! I think that the ice cream before and the roasted peanuts during helped a little!

Luke Bryan. 'Nuff said! He is cute! Very entertaining and a great voice!

And now for the hunk of meat himself. WOW! He is so great! A very real, and down to earth performer. He is so good, no wonder he has won so many awards. He came out on a stage that we didn't even know was there and ended up being a lot closer to us than we thought he would be. I was shaking with excitement! There is nothing like Tim McGraw live!

GRAND CANYON

2011-06-29T21:51:00.001-07:00

I know you are jealous. As am I. However, these pictures are beautiful! I made TyRell promise to take a ton of pictures, and now I have a full file folder of them! These are only a few. I can't believe I missed it...one day.

TyRell and my cousin Dan hiked 7 miles down the canyon to meet up with the rest of the crew who had already been on the river for a few days. The hike was supposed to take about 4 hours, but it ended up only take about an hour. The poor guys got up sooooo early so as not to hike in the heat. It sure worked! Hence the jackets!

I loved these pictures! This water flowed into the the Colorado, and is so beautifully blue! I guess it was quite a bit warmer than the river, so they had quite a fun time swimming in it.

TyRell, Chrissy, and Dad!

Sunshine and Summer Time

2011-06-24T21:47:00.000-07:00

Wow it's been getting hot around here! FINALLY! Logan is beautiful in the Summer. I have lived here for six years, and have never had a summer here. So, it's about time right? We are loving it!
Big T is content as long as he has something to put in his mouth. He had his 4 month check up today! 19 lbs and 27 1/2 inches. Amazing! He is grabbing things put in front of him, and can roll from his back to his side, almost to his tummy. That thumb usually in his mouth gets in the way!

My Mr. bought Bristol a princess wading pool. She loves it! She is completely obsessed with princesses lately. Her flavor of the week...Arial. She calls us all princesses, even Dad. Ha! It is great!

LATELY

2011-06-07T21:39:00.000-07:00

So, you may be wondering what we have been up to lately! Well, here we are in all of our glory. Tytan has been growing like a little weed. We call him "Big T" still, it fits. Bristol is enjoying any warm weather she can get, and her vocabulary has blossomed. It is amazing how much she learns in one day!

TyRell got pretty sick of Tytan's BSU hat (thanks to Jeffrey) and so he got him a USU hat. I love it. He looks good in Aggie Blue! We got a big laugh out of Bristol holding him the other day. He is only about 7 lbs. lighter than she is. They are quite the pair!

He is a hunk!

Bristol loves swimming at Nana and Grandpa's. This last week while Ty was gone, she got quite a bit of swimming in. The pool was really warm, but this evening the wind was whipping up. So, she announced that she was cold. She ran and got her blankie, which can't feel complete without her bink, and proceeded to cover herself in the pool. I just laughed. She sat there for a good little while in the water! She is becoming quite the little fish! Don't get water in her ears though, she doesn't like it.

Note the little yellow flower in the background? My Mom's poor garden suffered some picking. She loves "fowlers."

My "Big T" in his Aggie Blue. He is such a handsome little man. We love him to pieces. Don't forget the camo!